POV: 5 things I learnt from Sandhya in Dum Laga Ke Haisha!

Bhumi Pednekar's iconic debut as Sandhya in Dum Laga Ke Haisha not only left a lasting impression on the big screen but also taught us valuable life lessons.

In the charming small-scale film, Dum Laga Ke Haisha, a heartwarming tale of arranged marriage unfolded, captivating audiences with its simplicity and sincerity. Bhumi Pednekar plays Sandhya, a strong-willed and liberal bride, who refused to settle for the existing status condition. With an unapologetic spirit, she danced at her own wedding, embracing her individuality despite societal pressures. As an educated woman with career aspirations, Sandhya's dreams were shattered when her husband, Prem (Ayushmann Khurrana), failed to see her beyond her weight. She breaks down, only in the privacy of her own room when no one can see her, but her resilience and self-love ultimately succeeds. This wholesome story celebrated the beauty of self-acceptance, making Sandhya stand out as a character.

Pednekar's incredible performance in Dum Laga Ke Haisha left a lasting impact on lots of women like me. The way she brought that character to life was a testament to her remarkable talent and versatility. But what really resonated with me was how she handled the criticism that came her way with grace, strength, and a determination that inspired me to be stronger in my own life. Her journey taught me some valuable lessons that I'll carry with me for a long time!

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Her journey taught me some valuable lessons that I'll carry with me for a long time!

Embracing your uniqueness

In 'Moh Moh Ke Dhaage', Sandhya showcases her individuality with unapologetic confidence, encouraging us to love ourselves the way we are, no matter how imperfect or 'flawed' we think we might be. 

Education is empowerment

Sandhya's passion for education is another inspiring aspect of her character. Her determination to become a teacher highlights the potential of education. To watch her willingness to work and stand up on her own feet in a small town post her marriage is also inspiring to me as a young adult.

Standing up for body shaming

The film also tackles body shaming head-on by showing Sandhya facing criticism for her weight. However, she refuses to let societal expectations define her by learning to love herself unconditionally. This lesson is crucial in today's world, where body shaming continues to be prevalent. By embracing our true selves, we can break free from the constraints of societal beauty standards.

Marriage requires mutual respect

Sandhya's relationship with Prem teaches us the value of mutual respect, trust, and communication in marriage. Their open and honest conversation about expectations and desires is a great example of this. By prioritizing these principles eventually in the film, the two show us how to make your marriage work and the effort that you have to put into it.

Her arc from a coy girl to a confident woman

Lastly, Sandhya's transformation from a diffident new bride to a confident individual shows us the importance of self-growth. Through her journey, she learns to prioritize her own needs and desires, finding happiness and fulfillment in the process. This lesson encourages us to focus on our personal development, leading to a life that truly reflects our values and aspirations.

Here's to Sandhya who will always remain special because in a plethora of 'conventional' body types taking centre stage on-screen, she made many of us plus size women feel represented.

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